When’s the last time you told someone that you are proud of them? I was thinking about this the other evening as I was enjoying the company of friends. I just so happened to find myself in a conversation with one of my friends about a project he is working on to better himself. And as I was listening to his accomplishments thus far in the process, I found myself overwhelmed with excitement and pride….which I decided to share with him. I said “I’m proud of you” which got me thinking about how often I say this to people. It unfortunately left me with the answer of, not very often.

We are all doing so many amazing things in our lives. But, I know that with the over abundance of work and dedication these projects usually carry with them, it easy to give up or become frustrated. I know it is unrealistic to be praised for every good deed we do for others or ourselves. In fact, the entire premise in which this blog is based is the randomness of acts of kindness - those deeds that normally go unnoticed. I talk a lot about doing good and not receiving recognition, that we should feel self assured that the deeds we do are making an impact. However, encouragement is always appropriate and always appreciated. We should know this because think of the times when someone praises you for doing a good job or supports something you are passionate about. It puts a little extra pep in our step, no?

Let me circle back to the word pride. I feel like this is a word that is not utilized to its fullest potential. When I hear pride or if someone says “I’m proud of you” that makes me feel like I am doing something that others think is pretty awesome and well, that makes me feel awesome. So now, in addition to incorporating the word “dashing” into my vocabulary this fall, I also plan to add “pride” to the list…